“Daddy this is the best day of my life!” My 16-year-old daughter blurted out as we got out of our car. We were just getting home from successfully finalizing something she had been working on for a few months. Her hard work paid off and her emotion was very high; she was sporting a smile from ear to ear. This emotion was due in part to the trails of details unknown in getting over the finish line.
The emotion of being her father caught me and I too began to celebrate in her achievement feeling deeply the sensation of true joy. It is times such as this that being a parent is well worthwhile.
My mind began to realize all that lies ahead of this young lady. Yes, this is a time she will remember, but I know it will pale in comparison to what she will yet do. You see I too realized this same accomplishment at her age; I remember the joy I felt, it was cool. Yet, now as a father, the joy I felt was much different. The feeling is indescribable.
I could, as each of you parents can, recite many stories such as this where we were proud; happy for being blessed to be a parent. Knowing now with greater wisdom what life has to offer and how we continually gain greater appreciation.
What I want to share is that we who have lived a little longer understand the milestones which are head of our youth. Remember saying, “I do” and knowing your soul mate was now part of you? How about the birth of children; knowing you were responsible? Graduating from college, first job, promotions, awards, and new positions, anything that comes to mind? Finally, most meaningful, being there when loved ones reach these same landmarks.
I am so very happy for the joy my daughter felt, but I can’t wait to be there when she achieves just apart of what is on her bucket list. Know from your father the joy you experience gets better, sweeter and intensely more meaningful as you grow and mature. Thank you for who you are and for making me so happy 🙂
A touching blog Jaren. Thanks!
You are absolutely correct Jaren… We look at our children and see the milestones in their lives and we are happy right along with them as they progress further in their lives.. As parents and those who have experienced a lot of milestones in our lives we know that our young children have only just had a taste of all the wonderful things that is in store for them. I look at each of my children and get excited as I see their personalities unfold at what amazing young people they truly are and I can see the great potential each one of them possess.. I look forward to each and every opportunity they have to help them grow to be the best that they can be 😉 Thank you for sharing this, a subject close to my heart for sure!!